Wife dating other men
Allaah has made the wife a covering for her husband and has made the husband a covering for his wife.Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “They are Libaas [i.e. you enjoy the pleasure of living with them)] for you and you are the same for them” [al-Baqarah 7] One of the blessings that Allaah bestows upon some spouses is that He creates love and compassion between them, and helps each of them to do that which causes harmony to grow in the family and ward off disputes and arguments.How can he trust you if you destroyed your home for his sake?This pattern may be repeated when you are married to him.Cut off all means that may enable him to continue to have any place in your life.One of the ways in which you can ward off these devilish whispers is to ask yourself the following questions and answer them honestly: 1.All of these factors and many others apply to the istikhaarah prayer that you offered.
To explain further: if a Muslim woman prays istikhaarah about marrying someone other than her husband when she is still married to her husband, then in fact she is praying istikhaarah about wrecking her home and family, and praying istikhaarah about hurting her children, and praying istikhaarah about divorcing a husband who is treating her well and taking good care of her.I dont see him but I know that since his a very decent boy and sincere.I have also grown to have feelings for him but I try and hide it all the time.This is a very great blessing indeed, which is not appreciated by anyone but those whose family relationships are disrupted and disputes and arguments arise amongst them, which turn the marital relationship into an unbearable hell.If that happens, each spouse starts to dream of a stable family life, and the man wishes for a wife with whom he can live in peace, and the wife wishes for a man with whom she can live in peace.
These doubts will persist and will be a cause of anxiety for both of you.